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Where Do I Get My Ideas for Novels?

One of the questions I’m asked most often as a writer is: Where do you come up with your ideas? The truth is, inspiration strikes me on a daily basis. Sometimes, it’s in the middle of my morning walk when I’m surrounded by the rhythm of everyday life. People going about their day, snippets of conversation, the way someone carries themselves—all of it sparks my imagination. For instance, there’s a handsome guy with a cute dog who owns a bicycle shop that I pass every morning. Naturally, he’s going to find his way into a book someday. Plot bunnies, as I like to call them, are everywhere.

But it’s not just strangers or random moments that inspire me. Many of my ideas come from my own life experiences. It’s these stories, memories, and even challenges that help me create characters and plots that feel authentic. For all of you who want to be writers, I recommend keeping a journal so you can refer to your prior experiences. Let me take you on a journey through some of those experiences and how they’ve shaped my writing.

Writing What I Know: The Arts, Makeup, and Latinx Culture

When I was younger, I had my heart set on becoming a concert pianist. I was steeped in classical music, not just as a pianist but also playing brass instruments and guitar. If you wanted the perfect example of a geeky kid who loved going to the symphony, I’d be the zitty teen face on a poster. While life took me in a different direction, that passion for music never left me. It’s no surprise that I’ve written several novels about musicians. In Mr. Mouthful, a symphony conductor falls in love with a cellist who owns a coffee shop. The Boundary tells the story of an opera singer falling in love with his makeup artist, and The Big Time explores the journey of an up-and-coming pop star. Music has always been a deep well of inspiration for me.

Later, my artistic path led me to the world of beauty. I became a professional makeup artist and had the honor of working for Bobbi Brown Cosmetics, opening the very first Bobbi Brown studio and retail store in the United States. Working with Bobbi was totally amazing! My experiences there helped me shape the love interest in The Boundary, adding layers of authenticity to a story about ambition and artistry.

And then, there’s my personal life. I’ve spent many years living in Mexico and was in a 23-year relationship with my former partner Ricardo, who was Mexican-American. This immersion in Latinx culture has naturally found its way into my writing. For instance, The Big One, and Electric feature characters with rich, Latinx backstories. Writers often hear the advice to “write what you know,” and for me, that’s proven to be invaluable.

The Birth of The Money Shot

The novel I’m currently polishing up, The Money Shot, came from a very different kind of inspiration. I’m not going to lie: I was casually perusing porn on Reddit (research, obviously!), and I noticed a growing trend. Many of the guys posting nudes and videos were linking to their OnlyFans pages. That sparked an idea. What if I wrote a story about someone turning to OnlyFans out of financial desperation? Enter Liam and Jack, two roommates navigating this uncharted territory, all while falling in love.

While developing the plot, I found myself binge-watching The Nanny on YouTube. Fran Fine’s larger-than-life personality inspired Vanessa Martinez, a Latina version of Fran with her own unique flair—and let’s just say, Vanessa is a lot naughtier. She brings comic relief and a dash of chaos to The Money Shot, and she’s quickly become one of my favorite characters to write.

Open Minds, Endless Ideas

One thing I’ve learned as a writer is the importance of keeping your mind open. Inspiration can come from anywhere: a conversation, a memory, a random observation, or even something as mundane as scrolling through social media. The key is to notice the sparks and fan them into flames.

That said, I doubt I’ll ever write about something I don’t at least have a working knowledge of. For instance, I’ve never written about ice hockey or deep-sea exploration because those worlds feel too far removed from my own. But who knows? If I ever take up scuba diving or start caring about sports, maybe that’ll change.

For now, I’m content letting my past experiences and everyday observations guide me. Life is full of stories waiting to be told, and I can’t wait to see what sparks my imagination next.

Using Side Characters to Enrich Your Novel: A Look into Laura’s Story

In fiction, side characters often function as more than just background noise. Done well, they can add emotional depth, thematic resonance, and nuance to the main story. One way to accomplish this is through vignettes—short, evocative episodes that reveal a side character’s perspective, history, or inner life.

Take Laura, a dominatrix introduced in Money Shot, as an example. While she isn’t the protagonist, her chapter—detailing an evening that blends professional detachment, personal reflection, and emotional vulnerability—shows how vignettes can elevate a narrative. Let’s break down what her vignette adds to the story.

1. Humanizing a Professional Persona

In Laura’s scene, readers glimpse the duality of her life. Professionally, she’s confident, composed, and dominant, creating content for her FantasyFans platform. But as soon as the camera stops rolling, we see her as a layered individual—someone grappling with wistful memories and the gap between her dreams and reality.

This balance between strength and vulnerability doesn’t just make Laura relatable; it challenges stereotypes about her profession. Through Laura, readers are reminded that no one is defined solely by their job, and every character has a hidden complexity.

2. Reflecting Themes of the Main Story

Laura’s flashback to Seth—the man who shattered her youthful faith in love—echoes themes of disillusionment and second chances that permeate Money Shot. Her longing for something real and meaningful mirrors the struggles of the main characters, Liam and Jack, as they navigate their feelings in a complicated world.

By tying her personal heartbreak to broader themes, Laura’s vignette strengthens the emotional core of the novel, making her a narrative bridge between side plot and central story.

3. Introducing Subtle Plot Developments

The vignette also moves the plot forward in small but meaningful ways. When Laura stumbles upon a video of Liam and Jack, her reaction—shock at their chemistry and recognition of genuine love—foreshadows the emotional payoff in their relationship. As a seasoned observer in the adult content world, her perspective carries weight, validating what readers may already suspect: Liam and Jack aren’t just partners for the camera.

These subtle nods to the main plot keep the vignette relevant, ensuring it feels like a natural extension of the story rather than a detour.

4. Adding Texture to the Worldbuilding

By diving into Laura’s personal and professional lives, the vignette expands the world of Money Shot. Her experiences add texture to the broader community of creators, giving readers a sense of the diverse personalities and stories within the industry. This rich backdrop makes the story more immersive, as readers feel they’re stepping into a fully realized world.

5. Engaging Readers with Unique Voices

Laura’s voice—pragmatic yet tinged with longing—stands out. Her commentary on life, love, and work is sharp, insightful, and occasionally self-deprecating. This distinct voice keeps readers engaged, even when she’s not driving the main plot. It’s a reminder that side characters can shine as much as protagonists when given the chance.

Conclusion: More Than the Sum of Its Parts

Laura’s vignette demonstrates how side characters can contribute depth, complexity, and resonance to a story. By giving them space to reflect, connect, or react to events, you’re not just adding texture to your novel—you’re inviting readers to explore its emotional and thematic undercurrents in new and meaningful ways.

When crafting your next story, consider giving your side characters the spotlight for a moment. You might be surprised at how much they have to offer.

The Money Shot will be released this December.

Exclusive Character Interview: Liam Murphy from Money Shot

Hello, romance lovers! Today, we’re diving into the world of Money Shot with an exclusive interview with Liam Murphy, one of the novel’s central characters. Liam’s journey from a newly-graduated tech hopeful to an unlikely internet star is both spicy and suspenseful, not to mention complicated by feelings for his best friend and roommate, Jackson Barrett. Let’s hear what Liam has to say about it all—especially that romance budding between him and Jack!

Q: Hi Liam! Readers are already curious about you and Jack. How would you describe him?

Liam: Laughs Oh man, Jack is… complicated. We’ve been best friends since college, so living together was an easy decision at first. He’s that guy who keeps everything together, you know? When my life blew up, Jack was right there for me. He’s got this laid-back charm, never freaks out—and definitely doesn’t judge. And even if he’d deny it, he’s got a soft side that makes him easy to love. grins

Q: Love? That’s a big word, Liam!

Liam: blushes Well, “love” is complicated when you’re hiding in plain sight. We’ve had this connection for years, but making it anything more? That’s where it gets tricky. I’d be lying if I said he didn’t mean a lot to me.

Q: So, tell us how you went from “tech guy” to creating videos with Jack.

Liam: Ha, definitely not what I had planned for myself! After I lost my job, I went to this party and met this woman who made bank from adult content. At first, I thought she was kidding. But after running the numbers and facing rent with zero income, I thought, “Why not?” One thing led to another, and I was creating content. Jack found out by accident, and instead of flipping out, he offered to help. We’re both trying to figure out what this means for us… as friends and, well, maybe more.

Q: Speaking of “more,” what’s it like filming with someone you’re close to? Does it get… complicated?

Liam: It’s impossible not to feel… something. Our first few shoots were hilarious—awkward as hell, honestly. Jack likes to joke that we’re “method actors” because we kept laughing and stumbling over each other. But that awkwardness started to change, and things got real. Fast. There are moments on camera where I have to remind myself it’s just a “job” because, well, my feelings for him are real.

Q: Is anyone else in on this? Who knows about you and Jack’s videos?

Liam: Nessa, our building manager, knows everything. I’m convinced she’s psychic. She’s got this insane Queens accent, cherry-red hair, and no filter. She somehow knew before we even did it, and she hasn’t stopped “coaching” us since. Then there’s Dimitri, the perpetually grouchy security guard in our building. They’re the quirkiest support system we never asked for.

Q: And your other roommate, Bradley—what’s his role in all of this?

Liam: Bradley… he’s a whole different story. Jack and I had no idea he was dealing drugs until the cops showed up at our housewarming party. He got arrested, which is how we landed in this financial bind. We’re stuck covering rent, bills, everything. Jack and I are in survival mode, really, but it’s brought us closer in ways I never thought possible.

Q: We have to ask—where do you see things going between you and Jack? Is this just about friendship, or could it be more?

Liam: I’d love to say I know, but the truth is, we’re still figuring it out. Jack’s the person I trust more than anyone. I just don’t know if he feels the same way I do, or if he’s just here because we’re in this crazy situation together. I hope that by the end of it, he realizes… well, that maybe there’s more between us than just friendship or even business.

Q: Before we let you go, can you share any hints about what’s next for you two?

Liam: I can’t spoil too much, but I can say that the line between “pretend” and real feelings gets blurrier every day. And as for what’s next—well, we’ll either make this thing work, or we’ll figure out how to stay friends. Either way, I don’t see my life without Jack in it.

That’s it for today’s exclusive! Stay tuned for Money Shot, where you’ll see how Liam and Jack handle the pressure, the passion, and the surprises life throws their way. And maybe, just maybe, they’ll find the love they’ve both been looking for.

Creating Side Characters Who Steal the Show: Meet Nessa Martinez from Money Shot

When I start a new story, side characters come to life almost as naturally as the main ones do. They add color, balance, and a deeper sense of reality to the world my protagonists inhabit. In Money Shot, my upcoming novel in the Boys On Film series, one character has really captured my imagination (and, I hope, will capture yours too): Vanessa “Nessa” Martinez.

Why Side Characters Matter

Side characters aren’t just there to fill space; they’re essential to making a story feel whole. They provide the friction, humor, and contrast that allow main characters to reveal hidden parts of themselves. Think of them as the characters who will say or do the things that the main characters wouldn’t—or couldn’t. They’re bold, unpredictable, and real. They also play another crucial role by grounding the story. In Money Shot, for instance, Liam and Jack’s emotional journey is intense and deeply personal, but it’s through Nessa’s eyes that the larger themes of friendship, loyalty, and love are often brought into focus.

Meet Nessa Martinez: The Heart of Money Shot

Nessa isn’t just any side character; she’s one of those people who steals the scene every time she appears. She’s the building manager for the upscale (yet slightly chaotic) New York apartment building where Liam and Jack live. Nessa has seen it all in her years on the job, and she isn’t shy about sharing her wisdom, whether it’s solicited or not. With a signature cherry-red bob, killer heels, and an unapologetically New York attitude, Nessa brings warmth, humor, and a touch of motherly interference to her relationships with Liam and Jack.

But Nessa’s importance goes beyond her quirky personality. She becomes a maternal figure to these young men, two friends grappling with financial strains, career setbacks, and complicated feelings for each other. Nessa is often the first to see what they’re blind to in themselves. She has a natural gift for reading people, and her intuition is spot-on when it comes to recognizing the spark between Liam and Jack—even before they’re ready to acknowledge it.

Comic Relief with a Purpose

One of my favorite things about writing Nessa was the freedom to let her be herself—funny, nosy, a little loud, and always with a clever comeback. Side characters like her provide an essential release valve in stories that tackle heavier themes. As Money Shot delves into Liam and Jack’s complicated relationship, Nessa’s moments of comic relief keep the tone balanced. And her insights, often wrapped in humor, help them see the humor in their own situations and not take themselves too seriously.

The Side Characters Who Stay with Us

Ultimately, side characters like Nessa are about connection. We may not always remember every detail about a story’s plot, but the side characters who make us laugh, cringe, or feel seen often stay with us the longest. In Money Shot, Nessa’s larger-than-life personality and unfiltered love for her “boys” add layers to the story, turning moments of vulnerability into ones of strength and making the romance richer and more real.

So when you dive into Money Shot, I hope you’ll fall for Liam and Jack’s love story—and that you’ll find a little piece of yourself in Nessa’s fierce loyalty, humor, and unbreakable spirit. Side characters may not be in the spotlight, but for me, they’re as essential to the story as the main characters are. I can’t wait for you to meet Nessa and experience all the ways she keeps Liam and Jack on their toes! Money Shot is a gay romantic comedy and is releasing this December.

Exclusive Interview with Ben Mercer from Making It Wicked

Interviewer: Welcome, Ben! It’s great to have you here. Let’s dive right in—working at a Halloween Scream Park must be quite the experience! How did you end up at Haunted Hollow?

Ben: grinning You could say it was a mix of curiosity and needing some extra cash. I’ve always had a thing for places that give off a weird vibe, and Haunted Hollow? It’s practically buzzing with energy. Plus, I’m all about new experiences, and this place? Yeah, definitely unlike anything I’ve done before.

Interviewer: I bet! So, we’ve heard you’re quite the wanderer. How does working in one spot, even if it’s a scream park, fit with your free-spirited nature?

Ben: laughing I guess you could say I’m more used to moving around than staying put. But even while working here, I’ve found ways to keep things interesting. Haunted Hollow is more than just a gig—it’s a puzzle. There’s this haunted forest, strange noises at night, the stories people tell. It’s like an adventure waiting to happen every day. Keeps me on my toes, you know?

Interviewer: Sounds like the perfect playground for someone with your sense of adventure. Now, let’s get personal—what’s the deal with Theo Hawthorne? Rumor has it you two have some undeniable chemistry.

Ben: grinning mischievously Theo? Yeah, he’s… something else. We’re total opposites. He’s all about planning, making sure every detail is perfect. I kind of just go with the flow. But there’s something about him—beneath all that seriousness, there’s a lot more going on. Plus, getting him to loosen up a bit? That’s my current favorite challenge.

Interviewer: Sounds like sparks are flying! But with your tendency to wander, do you think someone like Theo, who seems more grounded, can keep you interested?

Ben: That’s the million-dollar question, right? Thing is, I’ve always thought love had to be this big, epic thing, full of passion and adventure. But sometimes, it’s the quieter moments that sneak up on you. Theo’s got this way of making me think maybe there’s more to sticking around than I thought. Maybe stability doesn’t have to mean being tied down—it could be about finding someone who gets your need to roam but still offers a reason to come back.

Interviewer: That’s a great way to put it. Speaking of challenges, you and Theo stumbled upon a restless spirit at Haunted Hollow. How’s that been?

Ben: leaning in with a gleam in his eye That’s where things get wild. This spirit? He’s not just any ghost. There’s a whole tragic story behind him, something that ties into the park’s history. Theo and I are trying to piece it all together before things get out of hand. It’s dangerous, sure, but it’s also kind of exciting—figuring out his story, what he wants. I just hope we can help him move on before something bad happens.

Interviewer: It sounds like you’re diving deep into something darker than usual. Does dealing with the supernatural freak you out at all?

Ben: You’d think it would, right? But nah, not really. It’s more intriguing than terrifying. There’s something about the unknown that draws me in, even if it’s creepy or unsettling. Plus, I’ve always wondered if there’s more out there than we can see. Meeting a ghost? Just another adventure on the list. And hey, I’m not doing it alone—Theo’s got my back, even if he pretends not to believe in all this stuff half the time.

Interviewer: What’s next for you, Ben? Do you see yourself staying at Haunted Hollow after Halloween, or is there another adventure calling your name?

Ben: Oh, there’s always another adventure calling. Whether it’s here or somewhere far off, I can’t say yet. But Haunted Hollow feels like it’s got more secrets to reveal, so I might stick around a little longer.

Interviewer: laughs I think a lot of people are rooting for that! Thanks for chatting with us, Ben. We can’t wait to see where your journey takes you next.

Ben: Anytime. And trust me, wherever it is, it’s gonna be one hell of a ride.

Making It Wicked releases on October 30, 2024! It’s available at Amazon, Apple Books, Google Play, Kobo, Nook, and Smashwords.

An Interview with Maxwell “Max” Coleman: RVA’s Food Critic on Flavor, Recovery, and Rebirth

As the heart of Richmond’s culinary scene continues to beat stronger than ever, it’s hard to ignore one of the city’s rising stars in food journalism, Maxwell “Max” Coleman. A food blogger with a loyal following and a discerning palate, Max has made waves not just for his honest takes on local cuisine but for his own deeply personal journey of healing and transformation. Today, I sat down with Max to talk about food, life, and what’s next for this talented writer as he makes RVA his new home.

Q: Max, first of all, welcome to RVA! You’ve made quite a name for yourself in the food world, but before we get into all of that, let’s talk about your decision to move to Richmond. Why now, and why here?

Max Coleman: Thanks! Richmond has always had a special place in my heart. It’s not just the food scene, although that’s a big part of it. After everything I went through—recovering from my injuries, dealing with addiction, and getting back on my feet—I wanted a fresh start. RVA is close to where I grew up in Norfolk, but it also gives me the chance to carve out something new, you know? Plus, there’s just so much happening here in terms of food and culture, I couldn’t resist.

Q: You mentioned your recovery, and I know that’s a big part of your story. Can you share a little more about that journey?

Max Coleman: Yeah, it’s definitely been a wild ride. After the Unite The Right protest in Charlottesville where I got injured, things took a dark turn for me. The physical pain was one thing, but the emotional toll—that’s what really hit me. I got caught up in prescription pills, which started out as a way to manage the pain but became something much more destructive. There were moments I didn’t know if I’d make it out, to be honest.

But food became my lifeline. Writing about food, photographing it, experiencing it—it gave me something positive to focus on. It’s strange to say, but in a way, food saved me. That’s why I’m so passionate about it. It’s more than just a meal for me; it’s part of my healing.

Q: That’s powerful, Max. How has your personal journey shaped the way you approach food blogging?

Max Coleman: It’s all about being present for me. I used to be the guy who’d chase the next big trend, but now, I’m more interested in stories—both on the plate and behind it. Food is an expression of culture, of history, of love, and sometimes, even of pain. I like to dig deep into that, into why a chef chooses certain ingredients or why a dish matters to a community. And that’s why I focus so much on local chefs and hidden gems—there’s a richness to be found in the stories behind the food.

Q: Speaking of your blog, it’s been growing steadily! What’s next for you in terms of content creation and the overall direction of your platform?

Max Coleman: Oh man, I’ve got some exciting things in the works. I just moved into this amazing loft in Shockoe Bottom, and part of why I’m here is to take my blog and my videos to the next level. I’ve been doing all the filming and editing myself, but now I’m working with a professional videographer based in Church Hill. This woman knows her stuff—she’s going to help me create some really dynamic video content that captures not just the food, but the entire dining experience.

I want to highlight more of the “unseen” parts of the culinary world. Like, what goes into prepping for a pop-up? What does a chef feel in the moments before service? I want my readers—and viewers—to get that behind-the-scenes look.

Q: It sounds like there’s a lot on the horizon. Do you have any advice for aspiring food writers, especially those who may be struggling with personal challenges?

Max Coleman: My biggest piece of advice? Don’t give up on yourself. I know that sounds cliché, but it’s true. When I was at my lowest, I didn’t see a way forward, but there was one—I just had to keep moving, even when it felt impossible. Whether you’re dealing with addiction, mental health struggles, or even just the day-to-day grind, it’s okay to take things one step at a time.

And when it comes to food writing specifically—stay curious. Always. There’s always something new to learn, a new flavor to discover, or a new story to tell. That’s what keeps me going, even on the tough days.

Q: Final question—if you could only eat one dish for the rest of your life, what would it be?

Max Coleman (laughing): Oh, that’s cruel! But okay, if I had to choose—it’d be tacos. There’s just so much you can do with them, and they’re a perfect balance of flavor, texture, and creativity.

Read Electric today and get to know Max and Daniel, and how love mends what life has broken. Electric is available at Amazon, Apple Books, Google Play, Kobo, Nook, and Smashwords.

Review of Robert Bryndza’s Coco Pinchard Series: A Perfect Blend of Humor, Heart, and Wit

If you’re in the mood for a light-hearted, laugh-out-loud read with just the right amount of emotion, then Robert Bryndza’s Coco Pinchard series is for you! This collection of stories is nothing short of fabulous, combining witty British humor with relatable life moments that will leave you chuckling, teary-eyed, and thoroughly entertained.

While the Coco Pinchard series may not fall under the “classic romance” genre, it has plenty of heartwarming and romantic moments that fans of the genre will adore. What truly sets it apart, though, is its strong comedic voice. If you’re a fan of Bridget Jones’s Diary, you’ll find a kindred spirit in Coco, a character who navigates the chaos of life with endearing optimism and quirky charm.

What’s Inside the Boxset?

1. The Not So Secret Emails of Coco Pinchard

In this opening novel, we get a hilarious and often touching glimpse into Coco’s life as it unravels through emails. Coco, navigating life post-40, sends candid updates to her friends and family as she deals with a crumbling marriage, awkward dating escapades, and in-laws that are nothing short of eccentric. The epistolary format makes the story even more engaging, and you’ll quickly find yourself rooting for Coco as she faces life’s mishaps with humor and resilience.

2. Coco Pinchard’s Big Fat Tipsy Wedding

Things are finally looking up for Coco — a successful career, great friends, and a new man to love. But, as life would have it, her “happily ever after” doesn’t come without complications. Bryndza once again brings the laughs as Coco is left hanging when her boyfriend mysteriously disappears. There’s a healthy mix of intrigue, romance, and witty banter that keeps the story fresh and addictive.

3. Coco Pinchard, the Consequences of Love and Sex

Coco’s life seems like it’s on track, but the third installment throws in some unexpected challenges. Her relationship with her grown son, Rosencrantz, takes center stage as he encounters his own troubles. The mother-gay son dynamic here is one of my favorite aspects of the series, with Rosencrantz’s dry humor and Coco’s unflinching love adding real emotional depth. There’s also the ever-present meddling ex-mother-in-law, a surprise pregnancy, and more. It’s a whirlwind, but one that’s full of laughs and heart.

4. A Very Coco Christmas

Who doesn’t love a Christmas prequel? Set in 1985, this novella is a throwback that gives us a glimpse into Coco’s life before everything went haywire. We meet some unforgettable characters like Ethel, Coco’s future mother-in-law, and a turkey hilariously named Jean Paul Belmondo. It’s short, sweet, and a delightful addition to the series — perfect for getting into the holiday spirit.

5. Coco Pinchard’s Must-Have Toy Story

The final installment takes us back to the ‘90s, where Coco is in full holiday survival mode, scrambling to get her hands on a coveted toy for her son Rosencrantz. The frenzy over “Tracy Island” and Coco’s determination to make Christmas perfect encapsulate every parent’s holiday stress — but Bryndza keeps it funny and relatable, making this the perfect feel-good finale.

Final Thoughts

I’ve been listening to the Coco Pinchard series every morning on my walks, and let me tell you, there have been multiple times I had to stop walking because I was laughing so hard. I definitely got some odd looks from people, but hey, I’m used to that! This series is perfect for brightening up your day, whether you’re out for a stroll or relaxing at home.

What’s even better is that this gem is available in ebook, print, and audiobook formats. And the audiobook? It’s over 28 hours long! Considering that it’s priced at just $9.99, I’d say that’s off-the-charts amazeballs value! You’re getting an entire saga of humor, heart, and British wit for a steal.

You can find it at all major online retailers, but here’s the best part: If you sign up for a free trial of the Audible Plus subscription program, you get a free month to test out the service, and you can listen to the entire Coco Pinchard boxset for free! It’s an incredible deal and the perfect way to dive into Coco’s world without spending a dime upfront. Whether you’re new to Audible or just looking for your next great listen, this series is a must-have!

To sign up for a free Audible Plus trial and listen to the series for free, click here. If you’ve already got an Audible membership click here to get the audiobook.

To read the ebooks, you can purchase the boxset or read the books individually. They’re available on Amazon, Kobo, Google Play, and Nook.

How to Craft Unforgettable Characters in Romance: Going Beyond the Tropes

In the world of romance, tropes are like comfort food: they’re familiar, and they’re what readers come back for time and again. Whether it’s enemies-to-lovers, friends-to-lovers, or forbidden romance, these beloved plot devices give the genre its recognizable heart. But if you’re looking to write characters that linger in the reader’s mind long after they’ve closed the book, it’s essential to go beyond the tropes and dig deeper into what makes your characters tick.

Take Father Matteo from Confessions: Justin’s Penance as an example. He might fit the mold of the “forbidden love” trope, as a priest who struggles with his attraction to a student. But Matteo’s character stands out because of the emotional depth, vulnerability, and complexity of his journey. Rather than just relying on the scandalous nature of the trope, his internal conflict — a push-and-pull between his faith and his desires — makes him more than just a vehicle for the plot. He becomes someone readers can empathize with, no matter their background.

Here’s how you can craft unforgettable characters in your own romance stories:

1. Start with the Trope, But Don’t Stop There

Tropes are useful because they give you a framework to build your story around. But remember, tropes shouldn’t define your characters; they should guide them. For example, in the forbidden love trope, it’s easy to fall into a pattern of “Priest falls for a student, moral dilemma ensues.” However, Matteo’s backstory — growing up in El Salvador, struggling with his faith from a young age, and having a personal connection to his parish — gives his conflict more weight. We’re not just watching a man resist temptation; we’re seeing someone grapple with his spiritual identity, upbringing, and sense of self-worth.

Tip: Ask yourself what more you can add to the trope. What aspects of your character’s past, their personality, or their environment make their experience with the trope unique?

2. Give Your Characters Internal Conflicts

What makes a character truly memorable is their internal journey. External conflicts are important, but it’s the characters’ inner battles that resonate with readers on a deeper level. Father Matteo’s struggle with guilt, shame, and faith is what drives his decisions and reactions. He’s not just tempted by desire; he’s haunted by his inability to reconcile his role as a priest with his humanity.

Tip: Think about what your character wants vs. what they need. Matteo wants to be a good priest, to serve the Church, and to uphold his vow of celibacy. But what he needs is redemption, forgiveness, and a sense of peace with his human nature. His internal conflict is what makes him relatable, even if readers can’t personally relate to his specific circumstances.

3. Make Them Vulnerable

Readers connect with characters who are flawed and vulnerable. Perfect heroes or heroines might seem appealing at first glance, but they’re not as compelling as characters who struggle, fail, and face challenges within themselves. Matteo is deeply vulnerable — his guilt over his actions with Justin, his fears about losing his way in the Church, and his doubts about his faith all make him a character readers want to see grow.

Tip: Show your characters’ weaknesses and let them struggle. Vulnerability doesn’t make a character weak; it makes them human. Whether your character is battling their own demons, like Matteo, or struggling to open up to love, those moments of vulnerability are what readers will remember.

4. Develop Their Backstory

A rich backstory can give depth to your characters and explain why they act the way they do. Matteo’s upbringing in a deeply religious household, his history of questioning his faith, and his father-son relationship with Father Rafael all provide context for his internal struggles. Without these layers, Matteo’s moral dilemma might feel shallow. But with them, we understand why he feels so torn and why his decisions are so difficult.

Tip: Spend time fleshing out your character’s backstory. It doesn’t need to be pages of exposition, but knowing where your character comes from will inform how they react to the present. Their fears, desires, and motivations should all stem from their personal history.

5. Allow Growth and Change

Romance is all about the journey. Characters who start in one place emotionally and end in another are the ones who stick with readers. Matteo begins his story trapped in guilt and self-loathing, but he’s seeking redemption and peace. His willingness to consider new paths, like a retreat at Holy Cross Abbey, shows that he’s on a journey toward healing and self-acceptance.

Tip: Show how your characters evolve throughout the story. They don’t have to become completely different people, but growth — even in small ways — can make their arc satisfying. In romance, this often involves the characters finding the courage to love or be loved, but it can also mean reconciling with past mistakes or embracing new opportunities.

6. Focus on Relationships, Not Just Romance

While romance is the core of the story, other relationships in your character’s life can give them depth and context. Father Matteo’s connection with his mother and Father Rafael shows different facets of his personality. These relationships also serve as mirrors for Matteo’s own internal journey. His mother represents his childhood faith and duty, while Rafael represents the possibility of renewal and forgiveness.

Tip: Develop supporting characters who challenge, support, or mirror your main character. These relationships can help highlight your protagonist’s growth and provide more insight into their personality.

Conclusion

Tropes may draw readers in, but unforgettable characters will keep them hooked. By focusing on internal conflict, backstory, vulnerability, and growth, you can create characters who feel real, relatable, and multi-dimensional. Whether you’re writing forbidden love, friends-to-lovers, or any other classic romance setup, what will truly make your story stand out is the depth and authenticity of your characters.

So next time you’re crafting a romance, ask yourself: how can I go beyond the trope to create characters that readers will remember long after the final page?

Happy writing!

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Meet Max Coleman!

Today, we’re sitting down with Maxwell “Max” Coleman, the celebrated food blogger and journalist behind some of the most mouthwatering content on the web. Known for his sharp wit, discerning palate, and passion for culinary exploration, Max has carved out a niche for himself as a voice to be reckoned with in the food world. As he moves into his new loft in RVA’s Shockoe Bottom, we caught up with him to chat about food, life, and everything in between. Maxwell is a main character in the upcoming novel “Electric.”

Q: Welcome, Max! Let’s dive right in—what inspired your passion for food? Max: Thanks for having me! Honestly, food was always a big part of my life growing up. I come from a pretty diverse neighborhood, so I was surrounded by all these incredible flavors and dishes from different cultures. Food became more than just something to eat; it was a way to connect with people and experience their stories. That love for food only grew over time, and now I get to write about it and share those experiences with others. It’s like the best job in the world.

Q: Your blog has taken off in recent years. What do you think sets your approach apart from other food bloggers? Max: I think it’s a mix of things. First, I’m super curious—I love getting into the nitty-gritty of a dish, finding out what makes it tick. It’s not just about how it tastes, but the story behind it, the technique, the creativity. Also, I try to be really supportive of local chefs and restaurants. RVA has an incredible food scene that’s often overlooked, and I love being able to spotlight the talent here.

Q: You recently moved to RVA from Norfolk. What brought you to the River City? Max: RVA just felt like the perfect place for a fresh start. I’ve been through some tough stuff in the last few years, and this city has this amazing energy—creative, a little gritty, but full of heart. Plus, my new videographer lives nearby in Church Hill, and we’re really taking the blog to the next level with her professional touch. It’s an exciting new chapter.

Q: Let’s talk astrology for a second—you’re a Leo. Do you think your zodiac sign influences how you approach life and your work? Max: Oh, 100%. (laughs) Leos are known for being passionate, and that’s definitely me when it comes to food. I throw myself into everything I do, whether it’s trying a new dish or writing a review. Leos are also all about loyalty and shining a light on others, which I like to think I do by supporting local chefs and restaurants. We’re natural leaders, but that can come with a bit of ego too, and I won’t lie—I’ve had my struggles with that.

Q: You’ve mentioned some personal challenges—how have they shaped who you are today? Max: Yeah, I’ve faced some pretty serious stuff. A few years ago, I was injured during a political protest at UVA. That experience left me with physical injuries and emotional trauma that I’m still working through. My passion for food helped pull me out of some dark places—it gave me something to focus on, something positive.

Q: How does your journey influence the content you create? Max: It’s all connected. I think my readers see that I’m not just writing about food for the sake of it. There’s a depth to the work, whether it’s talking about the artistry of a dish or supporting a restaurant that’s struggling. I know what it’s like to have to rebuild, and I feel that same resilience in the food world, especially with local chefs who pour their heart and soul into what they do. I try to bring that authenticity into my work.

Q: What’s next for you? Max: I’m really excited to keep growing the blog with my videographer in Church Hill. We’re pushing out some great content, and I want to dive even deeper into the local food scene here in RVA. Beyond that, I’m focusing on staying healthy and working through my recovery. Life’s a journey, and I’m just taking it one step—and one dish—at a time.

Q: Any last words for your readers? Max: Just keep exploring! Whether it’s a new restaurant or a dish you’ve never tried, food has this incredible power to connect us and help us grow. And to my fellow foodies in RVA and beyond, thanks for sticking with me on this wild ride. There’s a lot more to come!

Max Coleman’s journey from food lover to influential blogger is as complex and layered as the dishes he writes about. We’re thrilled to see where his passion takes him next!

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Writing What You Know: Transforming Personal Experience into Fiction

Meet Jordan Reyes, a character inspired by you know who.

Have you ever read a character in a novel and felt an uncanny connection, as if the author had somehow peered into your own life? Chances are, that character was born from the author’s personal experiences. As a writer, I’ve discovered that some of the most compelling stories emerge when we draw from our own lives, transforming our experiences into fictional narratives that resonate with readers on a profound level.

I’m an author specializing in romance novels, particularly those featuring LGBTQ+ characters. My works include “Ignited,” an MM romance, and my current project, “Breaking The Ice,” a lesbian romance novel. Through my journey as a writer, I’ve come to appreciate the power of infusing my characters with aspects of my own life experiences.

In this post, I’ll explore how authors, including myself, often draw from our own lives to create authentic, multi-dimensional characters. I’ll share insights from my writing process and offer tips on how you can harness your personal experiences to enrich your fiction.

The Value of Personal Experience in Fiction

When we write what we know, we bring an unparalleled level of authenticity to our work. Our personal experiences provide a wellspring of emotions, details, and nuances that can breathe life into our characters and settings. This approach allows us to write with conviction about the thoughts, feelings, and reactions of our characters because we’ve lived them ourselves.

Moreover, drawing from personal experience can add layers of complexity to our characters. We understand the contradictions, the inner conflicts, and the growth that comes from lived experiences. This depth can make our characters more relatable and engaging for readers.

Case Study: “Breaking The Ice”

Let me illustrate this concept with an example from my current work-in-progress, “Breaking The Ice.” This novel tells the story of a congresswoman who falls in love with a political activist named Jordan Reyes. Jordan is a passionate woman working for a non-profit called The People’s Progress Alliance.

Jordan’s character is loosely based on my own experiences as a political activist in the 1990s. During that time, I was deeply involved with organizations such as Clean Water Action, Citizen Action, and The South Carolina Wildlife Federation. I also worked on election campaigns for former Virginia Governor Doug Wilder and former congressional representative Jim Moran.

By basing Jordan on my own experiences, I can imbue her with authentic passion for political causes, a realistic understanding of the challenges faced by activists, and genuine reactions to the political landscape she navigates. These elements of realism can make Jordan a more compelling and believable character for readers.

From Real Life to Fiction: The Transformation Process

Of course, transforming personal experiences into fiction isn’t as simple as transcribing one’s life onto the page. It’s a delicate process of selecting, adapting, and reimagining real events and emotions to serve the story.

When creating Jordan, I didn’t simply replicate my own life story. Instead, I carefully chose specific experiences and traits that would contribute to her character arc and the overall narrative. For instance, I might use the adrenaline rush I felt during a particularly tense protest to describe Jordan’s emotions during a pivotal scene. Or, I might draw on the frustration I experienced when facing political roadblocks to add depth to Jordan’s motivations.

The key is to use these personal experiences as a foundation, then build upon them with imagination and the needs of the story. This way, the character becomes a unique individual, distinct from the author, yet grounded in authentic experiences.

The Benefits and Challenges of Writing from Personal Experience

Drawing from personal experience in your writing comes with both advantages and potential pitfalls. Let’s explore these in more detail.

Benefits:

  1. Emotional Connection: When you write about experiences close to your heart, that emotional resonance often translates to the page. This can create a powerful connection with readers who sense the authenticity in your words.
  2. Rich Details: Personal experiences provide a wealth of specific details that can bring your writing to life. The texture of a protest sign in your hands, the particular shade of the sky on a tense election night – these details add vibrancy to your scenes.
  3. Confidence in Your Voice: Writing about familiar territory can boost your confidence as an author. This assurance often results in more assertive, compelling prose.

Challenges:

  1. Maintaining Objectivity: It can be difficult to separate yourself from your experiences when fictionalizing them. Remember, your character is not you, and their journey may need to diverge from your own for the sake of the story.
  2. Respecting Privacy: When drawing from real-life experiences, especially those involving other people, it’s crucial to consider privacy and potential legal issues. Always change identifying details and consider the impact your writing might have on others.
  3. Balancing Fact and Fiction: It’s easy to get caught up in recreating events exactly as they happened. However, the needs of your story should always come first. Be prepared to alter, combine, or even invent experiences to serve your narrative.

Tips for Writers

If you’re interested in incorporating more of your personal experiences into your fiction, here are some tips to get you started:

  1. Keep a Journal: Regular journaling can help you capture the emotions and details of your experiences while they’re fresh. This can be an invaluable resource when you’re writing.
  2. Practice People-Watching: Observe the world around you with a writer’s eye. How do people interact? What quirks do they have? These observations can help you create more rounded characters.
  3. Mine Your Emotions: Think about times when you felt strong emotions – joy, fear, anger, love. Use these emotional memories to inform your characters’ experiences.
  4. Use the “What If” Technique: Take a real experience and ask, “What if things had gone differently?” This can be a great way to springboard from reality into fiction.
  5. Be Selective: Not every personal experience needs to make it into your writing. Choose the ones that best serve your story and characters.
  6. Seek Feedback: Share your work with trusted readers. They can help you identify where your personal connection to the material enhances the story and where it might be holding you back.

Conclusion

Writing what you know doesn’t mean limiting yourself to strict autobiography. Instead, it’s about using your lived experiences as a springboard for your imagination. By blending personal knowledge with creativity, you can craft stories that feel authentic and resonate deeply with readers.

In my own writing journey, from “Ignited” to “Breaking The Ice,” I’ve found that drawing from my experiences as an activist has allowed me to create characters with depth, passion, and believability. It’s given me a unique voice and perspective that I can share with my readers.

Remember, every experience you have is potential material for your writing. The key is learning how to transform those experiences into compelling fiction. So, the next time you sit down to write, consider mining your own life for inspiration. You might be surprised at the stories you find waiting to be told.

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