In the world of romance, tropes are like comfort food: they’re familiar, and they’re what readers come back for time and again. Whether it’s enemies-to-lovers, friends-to-lovers, or forbidden romance, these beloved plot devices give the genre its recognizable heart. But if you’re looking to write characters that linger in the reader’s mind long after they’ve closed the book, it’s essential to go beyond the tropes and dig deeper into what makes your characters tick.

Take Father Matteo from Confessions: Justin’s Penance as an example. He might fit the mold of the “forbidden love” trope, as a priest who struggles with his attraction to a student. But Matteo’s character stands out because of the emotional depth, vulnerability, and complexity of his journey. Rather than just relying on the scandalous nature of the trope, his internal conflict — a push-and-pull between his faith and his desires — makes him more than just a vehicle for the plot. He becomes someone readers can empathize with, no matter their background.
Here’s how you can craft unforgettable characters in your own romance stories:
1. Start with the Trope, But Don’t Stop There
Tropes are useful because they give you a framework to build your story around. But remember, tropes shouldn’t define your characters; they should guide them. For example, in the forbidden love trope, it’s easy to fall into a pattern of “Priest falls for a student, moral dilemma ensues.” However, Matteo’s backstory — growing up in El Salvador, struggling with his faith from a young age, and having a personal connection to his parish — gives his conflict more weight. We’re not just watching a man resist temptation; we’re seeing someone grapple with his spiritual identity, upbringing, and sense of self-worth.
Tip: Ask yourself what more you can add to the trope. What aspects of your character’s past, their personality, or their environment make their experience with the trope unique?

2. Give Your Characters Internal Conflicts
What makes a character truly memorable is their internal journey. External conflicts are important, but it’s the characters’ inner battles that resonate with readers on a deeper level. Father Matteo’s struggle with guilt, shame, and faith is what drives his decisions and reactions. He’s not just tempted by desire; he’s haunted by his inability to reconcile his role as a priest with his humanity.
Tip: Think about what your character wants vs. what they need. Matteo wants to be a good priest, to serve the Church, and to uphold his vow of celibacy. But what he needs is redemption, forgiveness, and a sense of peace with his human nature. His internal conflict is what makes him relatable, even if readers can’t personally relate to his specific circumstances.
3. Make Them Vulnerable
Readers connect with characters who are flawed and vulnerable. Perfect heroes or heroines might seem appealing at first glance, but they’re not as compelling as characters who struggle, fail, and face challenges within themselves. Matteo is deeply vulnerable — his guilt over his actions with Justin, his fears about losing his way in the Church, and his doubts about his faith all make him a character readers want to see grow.
Tip: Show your characters’ weaknesses and let them struggle. Vulnerability doesn’t make a character weak; it makes them human. Whether your character is battling their own demons, like Matteo, or struggling to open up to love, those moments of vulnerability are what readers will remember.
4. Develop Their Backstory
A rich backstory can give depth to your characters and explain why they act the way they do. Matteo’s upbringing in a deeply religious household, his history of questioning his faith, and his father-son relationship with Father Rafael all provide context for his internal struggles. Without these layers, Matteo’s moral dilemma might feel shallow. But with them, we understand why he feels so torn and why his decisions are so difficult.
Tip: Spend time fleshing out your character’s backstory. It doesn’t need to be pages of exposition, but knowing where your character comes from will inform how they react to the present. Their fears, desires, and motivations should all stem from their personal history.
5. Allow Growth and Change
Romance is all about the journey. Characters who start in one place emotionally and end in another are the ones who stick with readers. Matteo begins his story trapped in guilt and self-loathing, but he’s seeking redemption and peace. His willingness to consider new paths, like a retreat at Holy Cross Abbey, shows that he’s on a journey toward healing and self-acceptance.
Tip: Show how your characters evolve throughout the story. They don’t have to become completely different people, but growth — even in small ways — can make their arc satisfying. In romance, this often involves the characters finding the courage to love or be loved, but it can also mean reconciling with past mistakes or embracing new opportunities.
6. Focus on Relationships, Not Just Romance
While romance is the core of the story, other relationships in your character’s life can give them depth and context. Father Matteo’s connection with his mother and Father Rafael shows different facets of his personality. These relationships also serve as mirrors for Matteo’s own internal journey. His mother represents his childhood faith and duty, while Rafael represents the possibility of renewal and forgiveness.
Tip: Develop supporting characters who challenge, support, or mirror your main character. These relationships can help highlight your protagonist’s growth and provide more insight into their personality.
Conclusion
Tropes may draw readers in, but unforgettable characters will keep them hooked. By focusing on internal conflict, backstory, vulnerability, and growth, you can create characters who feel real, relatable, and multi-dimensional. Whether you’re writing forbidden love, friends-to-lovers, or any other classic romance setup, what will truly make your story stand out is the depth and authenticity of your characters.
So next time you’re crafting a romance, ask yourself: how can I go beyond the trope to create characters that readers will remember long after the final page?
Happy writing!
Confessions: Justin’s Penance, Lust, and Ecstasy is available at Amazon, Apple Books, Google Play, Kobo, Barnes & Noble, and Smashwords. You can also purchase it from the Cruz Publishing bookstore.













